If you’re like me, you probably nodded reading the list above and thought “gosh, what’s wrong with me??”
These thoughts and behaviors above are patterns that your brain and nervous system have consciously and unconsciously picked up during your lifetime
Like how adults who grew up in a chaotic environments tend to become overwhelmed by loud noises
Or how people pleasing adults learned as children that making others happy meant safety from criticism or abuse
Or despite having a “good life” on paper, you feel guilty for wanting more because you were taught to sacrifice your needs for the good of others
And maybe you’ve tried ways to feel better or take your mind off things
Perhaps a nice vacation or an expensive shopping trip (hi, 👋 guilty as charged)
It makes you feel good in the moment, but it’s fleeting and gone before you know it
And even though things look good from the outside, for some reason, they don’t feel as good on the inside
The good news?
[btw if you’re like “how is she in my head right now??”, it’s because I went through all of this myself]
I was painfully shy as a child, constantly bullied for my ethnicity, my nerdiness, and just about everything else under the sun
I got all the awards and accolades and did all the things that I thought would make me happy and successful: Spelling bee and geography bee champs, piano recitals, AP classes, a prestigious college, medical school, you name it
All because I wasn’t sure of WHO I was and WHERE I wanted to go
I was uncertain about myself, so I followed the path that was set out for me, and I’ve had my fair share of learning moments. I constantly worried about other people’s opinions of me, and I hid my true self because I didn’t want to risk being judged, or worse: be discovered as a fraud
My session with Kathy was deep, meaningful and AMAZING! Kathy helped me process an extremely difficult situation that I had dealt with all week and couldn’t let go of. She helped me figure out how I would have handled that situation as my higher self and took me through a process where I had an opportunity to see my higher self and see the best version of who I am. I had never done anything like that before and it was incredible! The wealth of knowledge I received from Kathy was phenomenal and I’m SO grateful. She has a natural gift and is going to help so many people!
I immediately felt at ease working with Kathy. In just one session, I have changed the approach I have with my workplace. We identified some specific areas that I was struggling with and used metaphors and imagery to decouple some associations I had with some particular situations I encounter at work and this has changed my view of things. I feel peaceful, calm, and rooted.
As someone who’s been coached by many excellent physicians, I was excited to be coached by Dr. Zhang. I felt comfortable talking freely with her, and felt that she was actively listening. Her responses were thoughtful, nonjudgmental, and supportive. What stood out in our session was her use of techniques I have not experienced with other coaches (visualization/breath work) which I found relaxing and beneficial. She addressed my limiting beliefs and reminded me to acknowledge how far I’ve come and use that confidence – rather than fear – to move forward. I highly recommend Dr. Zhang to any woman physician who is interested in life coaching and open to exploring different coaching modalities.
Coaching and hypnosis have transformed my life in ways I never could have imagined
It’s the reason why I’m here today to pay it forward
I now coach people just like you who are ready for a change
Who are sick and tired of feeling sick and tired. Who have worked so hard and achieved so much and yet still feel like they’re behind
It took me 8 years on my own to get to the point where I could see that life on my terms could be a reality and not just a daydream
And once I hired a coach, it took me 6 months to make changes I had been trying to do for years
I wish I knew about coaching before I spent all those years trying to figure it out instead of hiring a coach to help me help myself
But it doesn’t have to be that way for you
I’m here to remind you of who you REALLY are
Not the watered-down, cookie-cutter, bland-tasting, half-interested, burnt out and perpetually exhausted version of you
But the full-flavored, vibrant, dynamic, saucy (maybe even spicy 🌶️ ), passionately energetic and beautifully singular version of YOU
(Please complete the Contact form for more information about additional services)
We’ll discuss 3 things on the call: